Guide to Creating a Monument at Ferncliff Cemetery and Arboretum
Choosing a monument for yourself or someone you love can feel like an overwhelming task, but it doesn’t have to. At Ferncliff, we understand that this decision is both personal and emotional, and we’re here to help take the pressure off your shoulders with our family service staff, who will listen, guide, and work with you to create a tribute that honors your memories and fits comfortably within your budget. To help you with this planning process, here are some things to consider:
What is a Monument?
The terms you most frequently hear related to a cemetery marker are gravestone, tombstone or headstone. These are often used interchangeably to refer to the stone markers atop traditional graves in a cemetery. At Ferncliff, we refer to upright stone markers as monuments, and they can range from classic and simple to ornate.
In addition to a variety of monuments, Ferncliff also offers:
- Flat Grass Markers
- Veterans’ Memorials
- Cremation Memorials
- Single, Companion, and Family Mausoleums
Materials and Style
Granite and bronze are the most common materials used on monuments and are very durable. Granite comes in a range of colors, and each offers its own sense of beauty. Typically, the color of the granite selected is the largest factor in determining the overall price of your monument. Grey granite is the most readily available in North America and therefore, the least expensive. Soft greys are classic and timeless. Rich reds, deep blues, or polished blacks can create a more dramatic statement. Darker stones also work best for engraved images or photos, if that’s something you’re considering. Color can be a subtle way to reflect personality or meaning, and we’re here to help you find the right fit.
Once you’ve chosen your material, you may want to consider the shape of the monument. Many people find comfort in traditional shapes, like the graceful curve of a serpentine top, or the simplicity of a flat or rounded edge. Others feel drawn to something more personal, like a bench for quiet reflection, or a custom shape that carries personal meaning such as an angel, a tree, or even a lighthouse.
We recommend taking a scenic walk through Ferncliff to gain some helpful insights to what is available to you. Take photos of shapes, symbols, or colors that feel meaningful to you. If you come to a design appointment with a general idea of what you are looking for, you’ve already taken a big step.
What Story Do You Want to Tell?
Of course, names and dates are part of every monument, but there’s space for so much more. What images or words might reflect the life being remembered? Perhaps a favorite quote, a symbol of faith, a cherished hobby, or a simple illustration of a life’s work. If you’re unsure where to begin, we’ll help you explore ideas gently and respectfully. Every life has a story, and we’re here to help tell yours.
Would Extras Feel Meaningful?
From photo cameos to matching granite vases, there are many thoughtful touches that can personalize a monument. Even engraving on the back of the stone can provide quiet words that speak only to those who look closer. These additions aren’t required but sometimes, they’re the little details that bring comfort.
At Ferncliff, we believe creating a monument should feel like honoring a memory, not managing a task. Our compassionate staff are here to help you every step of the way. Together, we’ll create a tribute as meaningful and unique as the life it honors.
